Much has happened in the last month. My 4-year old cousin died after an accident at a local mall. As a parent, it was the worst funeral I have ever attended. My heart still breaks thinking about it. While there, I saw some family I had chosen to distance myself from over the last few years for one reason or another. I was cordial, as this was not the time or the place to address those issues. My mother and father raised me better than that.
I have reached a breaking point. I will not keep my mouth shut any longer about this. To make an extremely long and personal story short, after my Grammie died, some of my mothers family was less than nice to her. They said and did hurtful, vindictive things that broke her heart. I refuse to stand by and allow these people to keep hurting her this way.
I do not like either of you. I feel that you are both selfish and have an incredibly skewed memory of your past. I can not believe that you have said the things that you have about my grandmother. I am not saying she was a saint, but she was DAMN good to me and my siblings! Neither of you will even come CLOSE to the woman she was. The only way you are like her is you share her genes. You hurt people to make yourselves feel high and mighty and you are shitty people for that. For the rest of your lives, I want NOTHING to do with you. You will not see my child, my husband or myself if I have ANY say in it. I have bit my tongue for far too long in regards to you. Your snippy little comments here and there about shit are ridiculous. I fucking hate you both, and I want nothing to do with you EVER.
THAT ALL BEING SAID....
To certain other family members. Cut your childish bullshit. It is time to grow up and act like adults. Stop with your stupid catty bullshit that doesn't fucking matter. Whatever your boggles are, are now in the past. GET THE FUCK OVER IT!
